As I tell all my clients, this may not be the body you want, but it’s the body you have. So let’s make it look its absolute best. Why wait? Now is the time to look and feel your best. I know many of you are probably “losing weight,” but how long have you been trying? I hate to break it to you, but if you haven’t lost it in the past year, it probably isn’t going anywhere any time soon. So why put off looking and feeling great any longer? Be realistic with yourself and start spending the time and money on yourself. You deserve it. Buy clothes that fit, regardless of the number on the tag. Put the effort into your outfits. Make sure your hair and makeup look good. I guarantee you that regardless of your age or weight, if you spend a little more time on yourself this year you will look and feel fabulous! Who knows, all the added confidence could help you lose that extra weight, land that new job, or find that perfect someone you’ve been looking for. Today is the day!
New Year New You Tips
Do a Closet Overhaul
Get rid of all those old clothes that are weighing you down. Regardless of who gave them to you, how much you paid for them, or who made them, if they aren’t working for you, toss them! You don’t realize it, but every time your closet is filled with clothes that you’re not wearing, they act as negative reminders. Why be reminded every time you open your closet that you are either too big to wear something, you’ve spent lots of money on something that you’ve never worn, you no longer have that great job where you used to wear that suit, etc. We have enough things bringing us down every day. We don’t need our clothes dragging us down every time we open our closet. Your closet should only be filled with clothes that fit, that you feel fabulous in, and that make you happy. And if that means that you have fewer things in your closet, then so be it. I promise, you will be so much happier.
Get a New Haircut or Color
If you have had the same haircut or color for more than 5 years, it may be time for a little update. No one says it has to be dramatic, but subtle changes can often take years off you. Sometimes it’s as simple as cutting your bangs slightly different, adding in a few layers, or adding some highlights or low lights. Of course you can always go for a more dramatic change as well. It’s just hair, it will grow back. Embrace change and watch the years melt off. If you need a good hairdresser I have a fabulous one!
Update Your Makeup
Similar to the hair situation, if you’ve always done your makeup the same way, try changing things up a bit. Our skin lightens naturally as well age, so it is essential to readdress your colors and makeup every few years. Techniques change as well. I’m not talking about wearing the latest eye shadow color or following all the makeup trends, but I am talking about learning new techniques, and constantly refining your makeup choices so that they are continually making you look your best.
Add Two New Pieces to Your Wardrobe Every Season
Make a point to add at least two new pieces to your wardrobe every season. These can be in any price range you choose, but it is important to stay updated. Even if you continually buy classic pieces, the shapes and cuts of garments change over time, so it is essential to replace them every now and then to stay current. If you can add in the color du jour through accessories as well, you’ll be even more with it! It doesn’t take much to stay current, it just takes a little effort every few months. We can all do that right? Again, I’m here if you need help with this.
Make Time for Yourself
Our inner and outer beauty are so interrelated that when you make time for yourself, you will absolutely feel better about the way you look. Everyone’s idea of “me” time is different. Maybe you love taking baths, maybe it’s long walks on the beach, or a yoga class, or curling up in bed and reading a great book. Whatever it is that revives your spirit, make sure you schedule that time into your calendar every week. Our entire self image starts to erode when we lose all of our “me” time. It is a very important piece of the total image puzzle.
